The book of Genesis introduces God’s plan for marriage, outlining the fundamental principles of the sacred union between one man and one woman. As the story of the creation of the world unfolds, we come across a timeless verse in Genesis 2:24 (ESV):
“Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.”
This verse beautifully captures the essence of marriage—a holy bond between a man and a woman, two individuals who become one.
The story of Isaac and Rebekah perfectly illustrates the divine plan. It is a story filled with faith, trust, and love. Abraham, Isaac’s father, wanted to find a suitable wife for his son, so he sent his servant on a quest to find the perfect match. When the servant met Rebekah at the well, she offered him a drink and went beyond by taking care of his camels too. The servant then knew that Rebekah was the one chosen by God for Isaac (Genesis 24:1–20).
Looking at this story can show us God’s plan for love and companionship in marriage.
PERFECTLY DESIGNED
The concept of marriage is not a random idea; rather, it is deeply rooted in the very nature of God and His purpose for humanity. Our Creator designed man and woman in His image, each with unique qualities that complement one another. Through marriage, man and woman form a partnership that reflects the divine harmony within the Godhead, characterized by love, unity, and mutual submission.
Marriage is a fundamental institution crucial in building families and communities. It provides a stable foundation for nurturing children and fulfilling God’s plan for procreation. When a husband and wife come together, they create the ideal environment for their children’s growth and development, both physically and spiritually. A loving household with a mother and father provides children the best chance for a happy and healthy life.
Marriage has practical implications and holds significant spiritual value. The relationship between a husband and wife reflects the relationship between Christ and His church. Ephesians 5:25 instructs husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her. Wives are to submit to their husbands as the church submits to Christ. This sacrificial love and mutual submission within marriage are a powerful testimony of God’s love for His people.
In her book The Adventist Home, Ellen G. White writes that “God Himself gave Adam a companion. He provided ‘an help meet for him’—a helper corresponding to him—one who was fitted to be his companion, and who could be one with him in love and sympathy. Eve was created from a rib taken from the side of Adam, signifying that she was not to control him as the head, nor to be trampled under his feet as an inferior, but to stand by his side as an equal, to be loved and protected by him. A part of man, bone of his bone, and flesh of his flesh, she was his second self; showing the close union and the affectionate attachment that should exist in this relation. ‘For no man ever yet hated his own flesh;
but nourisheth and cherisheth it.’ ‘Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one’” (p. 25).
Evil forces are attacking the marriage institution, presenting alternatives to the divine design. But we must stay true to the Bible. “Christ honored the marriage relation by making it also a symbol of the union between Him and His redeemed ones. He Himself is the Bridegroom; the bride is the church, of which, as His chosen one, He says, ‘Thou art all fair, My love; there is no spot in thee’” (p. 26).
The institution of marriage represents divine love and unity. This symbolism beautifully reflects the spiritual and emotional bond between a married man and woman. No other alternative can replace this beautiful symbolism. Let us share the good news of God’s plan for humanity.
Aurora Canals serves as associate ministerial secretary for pastoral spouses and families.
This article first appear in Stronger Together, Issue Three, 2024. Used with permission.
